Get chosen: turn what sets you apart into messages that win clients

Stacy Eleczko

Positioning & Messaging Strategist

See what your buyers compare you to, and leave with messages that set you apart

Your business runs on referrals, and that’s great. Until a month goes slow and you realize you have no idea where the next client is coming from.

Here's how it shows up:

  • The call went great, then they go silent and you never find out who they picked instead. (Or you find out they did nothing at all.)

  • You introduce yourself and hear “oh nice” instead of “tell me more.”

  • You open three competitor sites and realize you could swap the logos.

Referrals work because you’re borrowing someone else’s trust. Everywhere else, you have to earn it by showing why you’re the pick over every other option.

Nobody ever showed you how to see what your buyers are weighing. So no, you’re not missing something obvious. But they are comparing you to something right now, whether or not you’ve looked.

And when you know what you’re being compared to, it gets much easier to say why you’re different.

Bring your list of alternatives. Leave knowing why someone should pick you over every one of them.

What you’ll learn

See what your buyers compare you to and how to speak to it, so you go from sounding like everyone else to being the one they choose.

  • Use the four-alternatives framework: direct, indirect (including AI), status quo, and inaction

  • Map what your clients compare you to, including doing it in-house, trying AI, and waiting

  • Start from your own list of alternatives, with a starter guide if you need one

  • Review how your alternatives talk about themselves

  • Know what to look for in your alternatives’ messaging, beyond comparing offers and price

  • Mark what’s crowded and what’s wide open, so your website and outreach stop blending in

  • Work through your own alternatives to find your strongest differences

  • Answer “why you?” in a sentence instead of a paragraph

  • Share your findings with me and the group, and hear what stands out and what doesn’t

  • Come up with messages you can use across your website, outreach, and sales calls

  • Keep your message consistent everywhere buyers meet you, whoever is delivering it

  • Anticipate what your buyers need to hear before they ask

  • Spot the objections your messages need to address, using what you learned about your alternatives

  • Brainstorm content ideas from your research

  • Never stare at a blank page wondering what to post

  • Have ideas ready that show buyers the proof behind your differences, not just the claim

Workshop agenda

  • Meet the four kinds of alternatives

    See how your buyers weigh direct options, indirect ones (including AI), the status quo, and doing nothing.

  • Watch me map a business’s alternatives

    I’ll walk through a real example, so you can see how it’s done before you try it on your own.

  • Map your own alternatives

    Start with your list. Work through direct competitors, then indirect options, then the status quo.

  • Compare your alternatives’ messaging

    Compare how they describe themselves beyond offers and price, and mark what’s crowded and what’s wide open.

  • Name your differentiators and get feedback

    Find your strongest differences, then share them with me and the group to hear what stands out.

  • Come up with 3-5 consistent messages

    Turn your differences into messages you can use across your content and copy, and note the objections they’ll need to answer.

  • Brainstorm your content ideas

    Brainstorm content ideas from your research, so you can say the things that back up what sets you apart.

Learn directly from Stacy

Stacy Eleczko

Stacy Eleczko

B2B Positioning & Messaging Strategist, Speaker | Earn trust & be chooseworthy

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Who this workshop is for

  • Founders and entrepreneurs
    You’ve grown through referrals and want new clients from beyond them, without guessing what sets you apart.

  • Marketing leads
    You need a message the founder, sales, & the whole team can say the same way, based on what buyers actually compare you to.

  • Small-team leaders
    You want your team giving the same answer to “why you?” and ready for the objections buyers raise before they come up.

What's included

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Learn directly from Stacy Eleczko in a real-time, interactive format.

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Testimonials

  • There’s a reason why Stacy is the positioning strategist I always recommend: she has a unique way of cutting through the noise and getting to the (profitable) gist of the problem.

    I jumped at the chance to have her speak to my members because I knew her insights would be invaluable. In a short workshop, she got me to reconsider my positioning and redo my messaging.

    And she had proof for everything she suggested or taught.

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    Adriana Tica

    Growth & Marketing Strategist
  • What stood out most was how psychologically insightful and practical the process was. It made the research feel meaningful instead of mechanical, and it gave me a much deeper understanding of the people I want to serve. As a result, writing my new copy has become dramatically easier and far more aligned.

    Thank you for sharing your brilliance so generously. Your work is incredibly valuable.”

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    Risa Haasbroek

    Mindset Coach

Why I built this

When I start working with a new client, I dig into their competitors’ marketing to make sure I understand the whole competitive landscape. Often when I open their websites in a bunch of tabs, everything sounds the same. Sometimes I even get confused and think I’m still on the same site.

Then my client tells me they know exactly what sets them apart. But when I check, it’s the same thing all their competitors are saying.

That moment is always an aha for them. It’s also the Proximity Trap™ at work. Businesses that grow on referrals hit a ceiling, because they never had to worry about the alternatives their buyers were considering. Beyond their network, that’s where the gaps in the market start to show.

I built this workshop so you can have that aha moment too, with me, in one live session.

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Beyond this workshop

  • Before: a short starter guide, sent when you enroll, to help you build your list of alternatives

  • During: a workbook that walks you through each step and gives you one place to organize everything you find

  • After: a free open Q&A for any questions once you start putting your messages to work

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Nov 10
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11am–2pm EST

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