Dating Mastery

A scientific & spiritual approach to creating healthy love, using research-backed tools that work.

Amy Chan - Founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp.
Amy Chan - Founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp.
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Dating Mastery is an exclusive group mentorship program I created so I could work directly with people who are commtited to creating healthy love.

You're a good fit for this program if..


You don't want to waste another year on bad dates.


You want to create a healthy, committed relationship.


You want a tried-and-true method that will help you date with skill.

My mentorship approach is goal-oriented and results based. Here’s what to expect.


A clear vision of the type relationship and partner you desire.

Research-backed tools

Communication tools and templates to help you date better.


A dating strategy to vet potential dates effectively and skills to build connection and chemistry.


Skills to increase your confidence and ease anxiety.

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No matter your sexual orientation or gender identity, Dating Mastery will help you reimagine dating and love. 

Together, we will take researched-backed steps toward creating the love you’ve always wanted.

I’ll be with you every step of the way.


        This class has helped me realize a lot of the things that I’ve been just too stubborn to change in my perspective on dating. It’s definitely rejuvenated my perspective on dating.
Kristine F.
Kristine F.
        I really enjoyed and learned a lot during this program. The content was perfect, the WhatsApp group was supported in a big way, the Instagram videos/recordings are so helpful, and the two-week meetup is a good time frame to reflect and work on the homework. It was worth it. Thank you so much!
Soniya J.
Soniya J.
        I was impressed by how comprehensive the course was in exploring the interpersonal dynamics of dating from a variety of angles and theories. I found the dialogue insightful and the tools helpful in an accessible sort of way that could be put to practical use immediately.
Gary S.
Gary S.
        I found this program to be really helpful for my dating life! While I am in a relationship now, I'm not fearful of becoming single again. Dating used to scare me because I have so much dislike for hook-up culture but the dating experiment offers a more exciting way that takes the pressure off and opens you up to learning.
Christin J
Christin J
        This program was great! Learned a lot from Amy. Met great people. Honestly, feel better about dating and have a more positive outlook.
Natalie B
Natalie B
        Its been a great experience! It would have been nice to have open space for all sessions like "office hours”. Also, perhaps having a 30 min private check in with Amy would be a great addition as a personal touch.
Annie B
Annie B

Meet your instructor

Amy Chan
Amy Chan

Amy Chan is the Founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp, a retreat that takes a scientific and spiritual approach to heal the heart. She is also the Editor-in-Chief of Heart Hackers Club - an online magazine that focuses on the psychology behind love, lust, and desire. The Observer calls her  "A relationship expert whose work is like that of a scientific Carrie Bradshaw" and her company has been featured across national media including Good Morning America, Vogue, Glamour, Nightline, The Times, CNN, Fortune and more. Her best-selling book, Breakup Bootcamp - The Science of Rewiring Your Heart, published by Harper Collins was recently featured in The New York Times.

Session Themes


Session 1: Setting Your Relationship Vision

We will determine the kind of relationship you want to create, and how you want to feel.


Session 2: Removing the Obstacles

Putting on our scientist hat, we will look at relationships from the past to provide data on patterns that might still be kicking around. You’ll learn how to identify limiting beliefs and thinking traps that hold you back


Session 3: The Dating Funnel

Dating well is a skill that you build. This session will cover the key points of progression in the funnel. You’ll identify where you tend to get stuck and learn the skill to increase your conversion rate! You will walk away with actionable steps to increase top funnel.


Session 4: First Impressions & Profile Makeover

You might think you come off one way, but is that aligned with how people experience you? We will dive into first impressions, the ingredients for a successful date, and how to create a dating profile that converts.


Session 5: Rewiring Subconscious Beliefs

You’ll go through a step-by-step process to shift a subconscious belief that’s blocking you from creating the love you want.


Session 6: Ask Amy Anything - Office Hours (Optional)

Have a specific question on which profile photo to use? Not sure if you should initiate? Feeling anxiety about your upcoming date?

In this optional office hours - you can ask Amy anything!


Session 7: Maintain Balance and Being Securely Attached

We will review attachment theory and create an action plan to become more securely attached. You’ll learn tools to manage emotions, keep balanced in relationships and not lose your power.

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Each Monday for 1.5 hours
  • We will meet via Zoom, at 5 pm PST every Monday beginning Sept. 12, 2022.

    If you miss a session, you’ll get a recording.

  • There is a Q&A (optional) at the end of each session.

    In between sessions, you'll have access to the community board where you can ask questions, access additional resources, and chat with the peers of your cohort.


  • Each session will include a lesson from myself or a guest expert, along with an ‘adventure’ designed to help you practice the new tools you learned in real life. You can find a full breakdown below.

  • There will also be time for us to review, set goals, and share as a group.

    You’ll have the opportunity to build a community of peers who are on the path to relationship bad*ssery right alongside you.


  • The regular tuition is $1995 but if you purchase Amy’s book and write a review, you’ll receive 50% off your tuition, making it $995 (offer expires on July 1).

  • Sessions include templates and worksheets so you can apply the new tools you learn. You’ll have access to a private Whatsapp group for support and accountability in between sessions. You’ll also have access to watch replays of the sessions.


$995 USD